How to: Date in Atlanta

Where can I start. maybe with a disclaimer

Disclaimer ! This blog is from my perspective take this unsolicited advice at your own will.

If your single and ready to mingle. I suggest you actually start becoming more social. By social I’m mean actually leaving your comfort zone, your aka couch. When you place yourself in uncomfortable positions you will be forced to evolve. The term being “outside” is not a negative connotation. Embrace the statement! You are literally outside of your normal routine enjoying life or catching a vibe.

There has been plenty of times, I stopped working on my laptop on my couch and decide to visit a local coffee shop. When I get invited to social functions sometimes I’m reluctant to attend, but I still go. This little push to be social allows me to make more social connections with people I’ve never met before. I say this because everyone has a friend, who knows a friend, who is single. For my ladies reading this post, I beg you to find a cute outfit, put on some fire make up and just leave your home.

If you are not that social. Dating online should be your go-to. There are plenty of apps like BUMBLE, HINGE, FACEBOOK DATING. Oh my GOD THE LAST RESORT NEEDS TO BE TINDER. If you alter your preference, you just might be able to find a perfect match. In reality it doesn't really matter, I suggest you really narrow down your standards. If your looking for a guy who is super fit, 6ft tall, great personality and nice career. Your living in a fantasy world. However it is very possible for that combination to be found. You will just have to be the exact same way. Remember you attract what you are. Once again ladies if your reading this post grab a camera and take your best shots.

So you got noticed! Either you met the person in public or online. What should be your next step?

Become an FBI agent. Go to google and search their first and last name. The goal is to make sure your safe during your first date. Living in a bigger city there are good and bad people. Doing your research can help keep you safe from situations that are not in your best interest. I DON’T HAVE TO ELABORATE TO MUCH ON THAT STATEMENT.

Tips during the date. I will keep it brief. I will probably created another blog post about proper etiquette when dating later on.

Tip 1: Dress the part. I have been on dates where the guy didn’t dress up and it made me so upset. Don’t let his bad fashion sense stop you from getting noticed from other suiters. Remember you are the prize look and feel that way.

Tip 2: Always bring gum. This can be a saving grace for you or your date. Have you ever liked someone but the smell of their breathe sent you to the next room. Its always an ice breaker incase he is nervous. Sis you should never become nervous on a date. Remember you are the prize!

Tip 3: Arrive early. Being punctual can allow you to see him entering the location first. This is another safety tip. If you get their first , you can see if this guy catfished you. Catfish means if he is not the person you saw online. You can decided if you would like to ditch the date if you are not feeling it.

Tip 4: Have fun! If your first question is when would you like to get married. Politely leave the date and drop your head in shame. Ask general questions like what do you do on the weekend. Do you have kids, or a wife. That wife part is not a joke. This is Atlanta.